When it comes to orgasms, most of us with vulvas have been taught that clitoral = the way to go. And while clit stimulation is amazing and often the easiest route to orgasm — it’s not the only one. 🙃
In this short, powerful video, sex educator Jill shares what’s what when it comes to clitoral and G-spot stimulation, how they feel, how to explore them, and why you don’t have to choose just one.
👉 Watch the video below, then scroll for pleasure tips, toy suggestions, and a few myths lovingly tossed in the trash.
🎥 Watch: Jill on G-Spot vs. Clitoral Stimulation
🔍 What’s the Difference?
Clitoral Orgasms:
- Surface-level, buzzy, more targeted stimulation
- Feels intense, localized, and quick to build
- Most common route to orgasm for people with vulvas
G-Spot Orgasms:
- Internal, deep, pressure-based sensation
- Located about 2 inches inside the vagina, on the front wall (toward the belly)
- Can feel like a “need to pee” sensation — which Jill says to lean into!
- Often tied to squirting and more full-bodied waves
💡 Pro tip from Jill: Use a “come hither” motion or a toy with a strong curve to apply pressure to the G-spot area.
✨ You Don’t Have to Pick One
The clitoris and G-spot don’t compete — they collaborate.
You’re allowed to explore both, combine them, or go back and forth depending on your mood, arousal, or toy of choice.
You might even discover new sensations you’ve never felt before — and that’s the fun of it.
🛍️ Jill’s Toy Picks for G-Spot + Clit Play:
- DuoDiva — perfect for both internal pressure and clitoral fun
- Andre — curved toy that works beautifully for G-spot exploration (just clean it thoroughly if used vaginally!)
- Roco Loco — clitoral superstar, compact but powerful
- Charlotte — ideal for targeted internal exploration with multiple head options
Want help finding the best toy for your body? [Reach out here] or explore our [Shop All Toys] page — we’re happy to guide you 💕
💖 Final Thought from Jill:
“The G-spot isn’t a mystery. And you don’t have to be a ‘one or the other’ type of person. There are so many different orgasms to explore.”
Pleasure isn’t one-size-fits-all — it’s an adventure.
Be curious. Stay open. Try something new. And if you need us?
Esmerelda is right here, cheering you on.
